men love gattemorte I always thought that was gattemorte of a category of women of low weight: girls with no personality who are trying to establish itself by pretending to be fascinating and bewitching. I have always believed that they were despised by the women out of jealousy, but were in fact ignored by men. I have always believed that they were smart enough to recognize the malicious falsehood.
I have always wrong.
hours I began to reflect on the nature of flirt, because I have faced and we are injured.
This sparked a curiosity mixed with envy for the character (who won the war, in spite of everything).
I rely on the web to find out what is in the imaginary town flirt (looking for more opinions from the people in blogs and forums that detailed psychological profiles and scientific): I actually found a lot of material.
This is the most simple definition: "a person who mask their appearance in nature virtuous little sweet, mild and blameless."
all opinions of the people is, however, as it were, the louder the flirt is described as a woman who shows himself timid, meek, mawkish and naive to monopolize attention, catching prey with flattery and adulation, the flirt then hides his aggressive nature, malevolent, ficcanaso, intrigante, disonesta, sleale e bugiarda sotto un'apparenza angelica e maliarda.
lo dicono le donne, e anche qualche uomo.
in realtà poi, secondo me, ne emerge la figura di un personaggio vincente: la gattamorta è una donna furba e determinata, capace di usare il suo potere seduttivo per catturare la sua preda, consapevole che quel potere è la chiave del mondo.
così come in effetti il gatto si finge morto per catture facilmente il topo ed ha sempre successo.
la gattamorta sa come adulare e ammaliare con moine feline la sua preda, sa fargli credere di essere cacciatore e di avere potere; nel suo modo di fare c'è qualcosa che sottintende una disponibilità quasi ingenua and disarming.
maybe that's why we like both men, who constantly give in to the trap without realizing it, and no longer able to break away from the precious pussycat.
adulation and flattery are the weapons of the flirt, who knows that everyone (even the bully) needs to inflate their egos by external confirmations.
and ingenuity in the face (stupidity?) Of all those men who claim to be immune to the charms of this kind of woman who believe in the words boring and uninteresting, which declare themselves independents, who says of himself " doormat ever! "and that they become easy prey at the same time, I wonder if the attitude cynical and utilitarian flirt is so reprehensible.
is definitely a winning attitude.
metaphorically speaking: the faithful little dog still on the table to beat the queue, while the cat rolling around in bed enjoying the attentions of the boss and demanding from him the satisfaction of every whim, victorious.
and so it happens that a man (personal) mature, which has always professed champion of independence, it is (think of) to woo a girl much younger, pretty and available. and so it happens that a few months after she settled down in his house, then go with another few weeks. He remains attached to her, feeling "a little 'lover and a little 'father' in front of the weaknesses of ostentatious targeted her and her hysterics. she still gives him moments derived from the report, continues to patrol the area in his house, tells big lies, the control calls and takes possession of the phone numbers of potential rivals, to call and, pretending to be sincerely friendly, tell them calmly and frankly an awful lot of bad things.
him?
he is okay.
all he can do is call him the little dog that is still on the carpet to fly and pull his tail a couple of steps: so, just to feel strong and gratify his ego finally now maybe a bit 'frustrated.
all this, however He never admit it, and will boast of having spent the afternoon alone in the mountains, by the time she spent at the mall with his fellow officers (which ultimately is perhaps even more stupid).
dishonesty and win the lie about love: this experience has taught me more than any web search.
however, with the winner winning the war against the faithful little dog, in my opinion, the flirt a bit stink 'death.
Is not love the strongest instinct of life which nature has given us?